Thinker and Dumber

First of all, i would like to congratulate to Mr & Mrs Ramzul, Ms. Haliza (ayong) and other friends that have been married last weekend. HOHO! Thanks for inviting me. Sorry for those who married but i didn't make it to attend their wedding ceremony.

Anyway, however...this lately i've been wondering how and why should be people called themselves the thinker or the dumber? Is it stupid question? Am I stupid and dumb? Nope! everyone have rights to ask...and everyone have rights to know. And it is teacher's responsibility to give the PATH to the right answer. Who can be that teacher? anyone! The teacher, lecturer, parents, Makcik kantin, Pak Li kopitiam, Mokna Keropok Lekor seller even your own self!! Teachers just giving u the path but the right answer depends on YOU. There's a lot of questions in this world that not been solved. Why? because we are just human being that been given by almighty, Allah SWT a limited brain to think and discover. Anyway,it is our job to keep thinking and searching the right answer for other's good. It is our responsibility as 'Khalifah' in this earth. To protect and to serve others the good...only good.

Back to the wedding ceremony that i have attended, I discover a lots of knowledge from the great teacher Onizuka. (ape aku ngarut? HaHa!) Actually from friends that have been married. They are just like a teacher for me in this field. They have a lots of experience better than me who just reading 'Permata Yang Hilang' (I'm not married yet!). So when I attend the wedding ceremony, I saw lots of happy faces, talking and eating, taking pictures, surprised seeing back old friends with their babies, some others are digging their teeth after having a meal. (huhuhu!) While having these Nasi Minyak, I have a chit chat with my friends. I keep thinking how can they married in such a young age? You know...in this new modern world era, all of things need money (or can I say moneySSS?? or monies? MONKEYS?! ) and getting married using a lots of money. They give a simple answer..."Dah jodoh,Did...semua kehendak Allah" (translate: It's faith,Did...It's all His will). Simple answer but it give a great meaning if u think it back.

Let say you worked and manage to save RM300 a month. (kalau kerja la yek!) In a year, u can save 3,600 and looking to value of nowadays market...we need average of RM7-10K to married a young virgin girl (gile...cam kurang ajor plok!). PLUS other things like ceremony, rings, bla, bla, bla...around RM12K. So, you need to control your hot romance desire a.k.a 'young soul' (jiwa muda yg bergelora) for at least 3 years to get married. So how can the young ones average 18-20 years can get married? One of the solution is get a LOAN! but i'm not suggest this. Enough already with PTPTN. Other solution? Lu pikir la sendri! (cam nabil raja lawak la plak...hehehe!). It's not hard to be a thinker...the only thing thats hard is to get the right questions. Why i'm said that getting the right question is harder than getting the right answer? One more right question that have been ask by me! It's because...in trying to discover things u need to ASK! When u ask...u need to ask questions..not ask answer! Did u get what i mean? If not...try be a THINKER!!

OPpss! Back to the tips that my friends give me for the married couple. She tell me about her friends who are married last year trying to save some money...so she bought a nice pretty cheap bed. She put some 'renda-renda' and other accessories to that bed..with nice coozy pillow..so short story,that bed have been decorated prettily! so on the day of ceremony, these newlywed couple have a photo session,they posed like a real model. Suddenly...PRRRRAAAAKK!! that bed have been broken! (moral of the stories: safety first, get cautions, don't forget to nail the bed even it is not cheap bed! hehehe!) Lets try to think if that bed is not broken on the day but on her first night... (HaHa...gile jahak!)

Another story she tell me about her other friends who married. This girl really busy, she buy the pillow and bed too..She put all of the stuff and decorate it. Her wedding just great and there's no trouble. Then it comes to night when all of relatives going back home and her families go to sleep. During on her first night, when she trying to get laid on the bed...it's making a sound (the bed i mean) shrik! shreeet! shrik! shreet! U know why? because she did not put out the bed and the pillow from its plastic cover! (moral of the stories: sounds can be the worst enemy.. hehehe!)

Based on the stories, do you think that they are dumb? Nope! There are no such a dumber in this world. They were just not try to think, they can't manage to ask a right question to themselves. Dumb is just the sequence for the lack of knowledge and experience. For me, the dumber is not exist because even you know just a little bit of knowledge, you are not dumb! You know how to read? You know how to eat? You know your name?? aaaaaa...NO?! If not, you are DUMB! kehkehkeh! But the thinker always be exist because that is our nature as a human being to think.